As I’ve said before, it’s not easy being a person of mysterious and indistinct gender, and part of such is figuring out what you want people to call you. Hence, since it’s come up on multiple occasions, I thought I’d do the nerdy thing and make a flowchart. Hopefully, it will lessen the confusion.
- Mx. Deirdra "Squinky" Kiai is a writer, programmer, musician, and visual artist who creates games and playable experiences about gender identity, social awkwardness, and miscellaneous silliness. They were recently recognized as part of Forbes’s “30 under 30 in Games” and they just completed an MFA in Digital Arts and New Media at UC Santa Cruz.
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